Sex and intimacy coaching for couples
Better intimacy in just 14 days.
Plan time you both look forward to. Pick something you both said yes to, put it on a day and enjoy the anticipation. Afterward, tell each other what you loved.
- Pick from ideas you both said yes to, or dream up your own.
- Put it on a day and look forward to it together.
- Afterward, tell your partner what you loved.
- Check in privately and see when you're both in the mood.
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Free to start · No credit card · Your partner joins free · Unlimited coaching $4.99/month after a 14-day free trial
One place for the two of you.
Connect, plan what you both want and build better intimacy together.
Here's what actually happens.
Sign up
Free on the web or the iPhone app. It takes a few seconds.
Invite your partner
They get their own private space. You're connected as a couple, with separate accounts.
Plan a day
Pick an idea you both said yes to, or dream up your own, and put it on a day. Add a little touch if you like. Then enjoy looking forward to it.
Say what worked
After a time together, log what you loved and one idea for next time. You choose who hears it.
Check in on the mood
Each of you answers privately: in the mood, could be, or not today. You see theirs once you've answered.
Talk to Dr. Bloom
Your private coach. Say what's on your mind, or practice what you want to say. She remembers and gets more specific over time.
Made by a couple
We built Dr. Bloom for ourselves.
We're a married couple who wanted more of the good stuff. Planning time we both look forward to, and telling each other what we loved, changed how we connect. It worked for us, so we made it for you.
Questions? We've got answers.
What if my partner isn't into it?
That's how most couples start. You don't need them to be excited; you just need them to try it once. A lot of partners come around once they realize their conversations with Dr. Bloom are completely private. And if they won't join, you can still use Dr. Bloom on your own.
Can my partner see my chats with Dr. Bloom?
No. Your conversations are private and your partner can never see them. Only what you both choose to share crosses over, like ideas in Our Space. If you're curious about something new, Dr. Bloom can ask your partner without saying it came from you, and you hear back only if they're into it. If it's something your partner has said no to, she never passes it on as a request. She asks them first whether they'd like to hear what you're curious about.
How does Our Space work?
Our Space is where the two of you find and plan things to do together. Browse ideas from sweet to spicy, or write your own. Ask your partner about one yourself, or have Dr. Bloom ask without saying it came from you; you only hear back on a yes. When you're both in, put it on a day, and your week shows what's planned. Afterward, a quick "How was it?" helps you do more of what works.
What does logging after intimacy actually do?
It takes a few taps: how it was, what made it good, what you'd want more of and one idea for next time. Then you choose who hears it. By default Dr. Bloom uses it to coach your partner without naming you, so it shows up as her own idea, like "try a slower start next time", not a complaint from you. Or she writes your partner a short, kind note from what you said, which you see before it goes. She never shares your rating, and never passes on something your partner has said no to.
Will my partner see what I like?
No. You each mark things Love, Curious or Not for me, privately. Your partner never sees your lists. Only the things you both said yes to show up, for both of you, in Our Space and Discover. Not sure what something means? Tap it for a short, plain explanation.
If one of us says no to something, is it off the table?
Your preferences are notes for Dr. Bloom, not rules. A no can be "not right now", and once in a while she'll check gently whether it still fits, less often each time. Or it can be "never", and she won't bring it up again. She never coaches your partner to push past your no.
How much does it cost?
You can start free with no credit card: partner chat, the mood check-in, Our Space, Discover and logging, plus 3 chats a week with Dr. Bloom. Dr. Bloom Unlimited is $4.99/month on the web or iPhone after a 14-day free trial, and adds unlimited coaching and everything else she does for you. Cancel anytime.